July, 2025 Archive

Europe 2025–Intro

Thursday, July 31st, 2025

October 22 2025

I met Ty last night at the brewery across the street in the San Luis Ranch Marketplace just returned from his monthlong trip to Europe. He’d been at a business conference in Cambridge and then on tours in Germany and the Low Countries and visiting a friend in Spain. Earlier in the day, I’d had coffee with Ken  who’d traveled in Europe for several weeks last Spring.  And the day before I’d received George’s brief account of his recent trip to Italy with Marta. Exemplifying the growing flood of tourism noted in the media, the chaos of oversubscribed and cancelled flights, the masses of people flowing through airports everywhere, these travel conversations revived memories of  our three week August trip to Scandinavia.

In the past, I’ve tried to memorialize and enrich travel experience in  photos and prose, but this year, perhaps because of some negative features of the trip, perhaps because I felt no one would be interested in yet another installment, perhaps because of laziness, I abandoned the formidable task of adding yet another blog to those already collected here.

This afternoon, while resting in preparation for a Zoom Homeowners’ Board Meeting, I recalled my agreement with Ty that we both were no longer up to the job. But instead of falling asleep I was smacked  by the thought that backing down on the writing was depreciating both the privilege and the investment the trip had required. The work of writing could re appreciate it and was a job I needed.

I should offer at the outset a note about pronouns.  The alternation of “we” and “I” in what follows reflects the nature of a lifelong partnership.  Much of it has involved an inextricable blend of two individuals and much has involved widely disparate outlooks and behaviors. The narrative in this account, however, is wholly my own, with the exception of Jan’s post on Bergen, Norway.

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Shane and Candice Wedding

Sunday, July 20th, 2025

Love and Marriage, love and marriage
Go together like a horse and carriage

That’s the old song from the play*
We used to sing back in the day,

Remembering an earlier time
When little farms and towns were prime,

Where couples met at church or dance
Familiar spots to find romance.

Since then, we switched our sense of place
The global village became the space

Where modern people first entwine
In the world-wide web, on screen, online.

But some old things remain the same
For our young Candice and her Shane

A community farm, a tie to the land
Co-workers and friends joined in a band,

And in this antique barn just now
The ancient rite of speaking their vow,

The words we witnessed that bind to last
Their lives, their families, their future and past.

A timeless moment, a rock to resist
Amidst the floods of change, to persist.

So, with love in marriage for 58 years
Sustained by that vow, I say, “Cheers!”

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